A lot of us are wondering why our society value nowadays womankind in a way that can be considered inflated and overdone … And some cases extracted from our daily life, tend to afford a certain balance concerning human rights between man and woman, treating this latter as the one who steals the show in the field of rights, letting go by that, man’s rights …
Is it true that now, woman is extensively satisfied with all the chaos made by her society’s different tools to make her deluded that she got the rights, that she leads the first pages of newspapers, periodicals, leaflets and billboards …?!
Well, if we see the whole problematic in a superficial manner … we will agree with the wave believed by the majority, saying that finally our women is enjoying widely her rights … However, these things are not happening this way, A true woman is not a woman who will find her own comfort zone by showing her legs, making her appear her feminity and considering her as a dessert for the other’s eyes … perhaps, it is going to make her enjoy the position of being the focus of attention but it is not that what fills the emptiness inside of her soul …
That is what really makes being a woman such a hard reality … because most of people think that what a woman needs is to be that rebel person, a person who revolts each and every time against society, traditions and origins … yet, it is not that what makes a women feel her freedom, it’s true, sometimes these princips build up some senseless obstacles but most of the times, a real women armed with logic, awareness, science and struggle can face all of that easily …
What else makes being a women hard in our society ? Well, we all know that a WOMEN, throughout the ages and still, is a sign of a group of some spiritual powers such as tenderness, love, affection, compassion, warmth, benevolence, kindness, sympathy and so on … However, she needs to be surrounded by a good few pieces of positivity so that she can give more and more, notwithstanding, and realistically instead of that, she ends up giving till the end but not receiving … and this is itself the strongest proof that signifies how a women can be powerful, even with not receiving, she illuminates her space by her own … she is the source of giving even with burdens on her soft shoulders !
Still, some people think that all of that is nothing but a must, a duty that should be accomplished by a women … sacrificing her own energy by spreading it over every single time she notices weakness in the eyes of her beloveds, it is not true …
What a women does for her family, for her close friends, for her surroundings is a CHOICE … she does not include the word selfishness in her own dictionary, she does sometimes hurt herself versus the comfort of people she appreciates, and she forgets her pain once she sees her sacrifices not going in vain !
Being a women is not as hard as that but worse … being a women is conserving that image that does not incarn her at all, the image of weakness, of powerlessness, of vulnerability … and once a women shows the opposite, then she is excluded from being a women, a weak female …On the other hand, a women is considered revolutionist or out of obedience once she does the things she wants to do in her life, once she thinks out of the box, once she finds her happiness in divergent ways, once she wants to be herself, once she wants to explore the world, once she wants to express differently, once she wants to gain new experiences and draw her own path in life … And due to the fact of being “just” a women, she is prohibited from making her dreams come true whereas she encourages men to achieve his own objectives …
It is typical that a men is physically stronger than a women, but who defined power as some few physical abilities, the greatest power lasts in minds, in souls, in insistence, in giving your life some true colors to fit in … that is the real power that every women hides in a deep part of her !
A real women is a hero, someone who sacrifices without waiting for a trophy, a person who gives while needing, softest person to lay in her arms and most savage when defending…
A real women, is a person who believes in what she can do, and she does it… she struggles against every single hinderance she faces, and with hope, she moves on ! A real women, is a power, an energy, a chandelier that ignites souls, a booster that promotes things and a treasure that should not be polluted by the other’s evil and intolerance ! that’s what a real women is.
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